5 Signs You're Dismissing You Might Be Trans Woman

You've been researching whether you're trans for months—maybe hours every day. You read articles, watch YouTube videos, scroll through Reddit. And every time something resonates, you immediately find a reason why it doesn't apply to you. "I didn't know as a child." "I'm attracted to women." "I don't hate my body enough." After 20 years and 7,200+ assessments, here's what I observe: the amount of mental energy you're spending trying to prove you're NOT trans is actually one of the clearest signs you might be. In this video, I break down five specific signs you're dismissing that you might be a trans woman: spending hours researching while simultaneously trying to disprove it, feeling intense emotion when imagining being a woman but dismissing it as fantasy, envying women in a way that's different from attraction, feeling relief when accidentally misgendered as female, and convincing yourself you're "not trans enough" because you don't fit stereotypes.

Watch this video to stop gatekeeping yourself and recognize the patterns you've been actively trying not to see.