Crossdressing or Trans Woman? How to Truly Know

This video is for a very specific audience: individuals assigned male at birth who have crossdressed for sexual pleasure since early childhood (ages 7-13), continuing into adulthood, who currently report zero gender dysphoria, feel comfortable being men and navigating life as men, but are wondering: Is this just crossdressing, or am I actually a trans woman?

This is the number one question people ask me.

There's nothing wrong with having a sexual preference toward feminine clothing. Many men engage in crossdressing for sexual pleasure throughout their entire lives and report zero incongruence with their assigned gender. This is who this video is for.

But at some point, the behavior starts messing with you. You start questioning: What does this mean about me? Am I a closeted trans woman? There's misinformation everywhere online saying "if you crossdress for sexual pleasure, you're definitely trans"—which is not always true.

In this video, I go into details of key differences and how to self-explore what it may mean for you.