Why Some People Who Crossdress Never Question Being Trans — And Why Others Can't Stop

If you have been engaging in crossdressing behavior for years and the question of whether you might be trans just won't leave you alone — this video is specifically for you.

Drawing on clinical work with thousands of adults assigned male at birth, I walk through the four patterns I see in people whose crossdressing behavior keeps raising the question, the two patterns in those whose doesn't, and a diagnostic framework at the end that I find cuts through the noise more clearly than almost anything else. If you are in your thirties, forties, or fifties and you are tired of going back and forth on this, this video was made for you.