Is There a Finish Line in Transition?
Does transition have a finish line? Dr. Z breaks down the 3 most important domains.
Finish line means achieving whatever goals or desirable outcome you're seeking—fully transitioning (whatever that means for you), getting surgeries, feeling congruent with body/gender expression. Is there ever an end point where transition stops? It's complex—not clear cut yes or no. Transition is multifaceted.
Three domains: (1) Physical—achieving body you want through hormonal/surgical interventions. For people with realistic goals (not perfect body/perfect curves/ideal height), many achieve this and close the door—feel done physically, very congruent, don't need other surgeries. Nobody's body is perfect—we all have acceptance to do. (2) Social—feeling embedded in world, integrated into culture/society with gender you identify with. Harder to achieve than physical because it depends on other people and environment. Can continue throughout life, especially harder for older people who need to shed gender constraints imposed pre-transition. (3) Emotional/Psychological (MOST IMPORTANT)—inner confidence, acceptance, self-awareness, capacity to hold on to yourself. Goes miles when social/physical domains have challenges.
Watch to find out why people who completed physical/social transition still struggle without emotional integration (hypervigilant, paranoid, insecurities in relationships), and why acceptance takes time with supportive people who help you see your value.
