Zero depth vaginoplasty is becoming increasingly popular among trans women. Many trans women, of different ages and sexual preferences, opt in to have this procedure. But is it worth it? In this video, I share my professional opinion when it comes to zero depth vaginoplasty.

When you start transition, it is common to focus too much of your attention on hyper feminization and hyper masculinization. This stems primarily, out of inner desire to fit into the “stereotypical” gender expression. There is also a problem with hyper femininity and hyper masculinity.

Many of you wonder what is the biggest challenge or obstacle when it comes to gender transition? Of course, obstacles and challenges are personal and are subjective to each individual. And yet, in my course of experience, I have found a common pattern that tends to come up again and again for many individuals undergoing transition.

Sometimes, especially if we are struggling, a part of us wants to believe that transition will solve all of our problems. While transition is an important step toward alleviating Gender Dysphoria and getting you closer to your true gender identity, is it also not a magick pill.

Throughout transition, people often tend to negate their past gender identity. This happens primarily due to Gender Dysphoria and an inner need to get rid of any shreds of the past. The truth is, many parts of your past gender are vital to your whole Self and need to be integrated.

When it comes to dating and relationships, many ponder questions of self disclosure. In this video, I share pros and cons of disclosure early on vs disclosure later on in hopes of helping you reach your own conclusion.

In my work experienced, I have witnessed how crossdressing in the beginning of gender exploration can actually have a negative affect. Watch as I discuss in detail.

Many of you expressed confusion between crossdressing and transgender identity. Especially if there is a presence of sexual arousal during crossdressing. Leading to uncertainty whether you may or may not identify as transgender.

Many people express not feeling dysphoria toward their genitals. Leading to a confusion and uncertainty about their gender identity. Truth is, many people do not experience genital dysphoria.

It is common to experience fear when it comes to exploring who you are. Many of you are afraid you might find out you identify as transgender. And in fact, not exploring is one of the worst things you can do for yourself.

When exploring your gender identity, it can be confusing to know which steps to take. Especially when it comes to affirming steps and how to spot them. Affirming steps, or small tasks on the way to your bigger goal, are vital to knowing you are on the right track.

People who are not comfortable with their gender assigned at birth, end up under the wide meaning of the word “trans.” As a result, many often assume that if you identify as transgender, you have to transition. The truth is, not everyone who identifies as trans needs or wants to transition.

Many people reach out to me asking what it means if they do not have an early childhood experience of body incongruence? Does it mean you are not transgender? Is having childhood experience necessary in order to identify as transgender?

De-transition stories are real! Valid! And important for all of us to hear! There is much to learn from this stories and to understand about gender transition and gender at large. Lately, there have been more people sharing their stories of de-transition. Watch as I discuss in this video what can we learn from this individual narratives.

When it comes to advocating for your needs, it can challenging when it comes to medical providers. This is primality because it is a challenge to find a skilled and knowledgeable provider to begin with. And often as a consumer, you know more about trans care than the professional you are going to see.

It can be a challenge when we find ourselves stuck in the negative cycle of behavior. Especially when that cycle is an attempt to avoid feelings of dysphoria. And sometimes it can be difficult to know where to begin and how to break it.

Many of my YouTube viewers often wonder if Gender Dysphoria ever fully goes away once you transition. Especially given that many start gender transition with hopes of completely eliminating feelings of Gender Dysphoria. But does it ever fully goes away? And if not, what tends to contribute to it?

Self doubting your gender identity is very common, especially the older you are. As you continue to self doubt over the years, without being aware, you are actually accumulating a compounding negative investment of emotions. In this video, I discuss and share ways you can break out of the cycle of self doubt.