When it comes to advocating for your needs, it can challenging when it comes to medical providers. This is primality because it is a challenge to find a skilled and knowledgeable provider to begin with. And often as a consumer, you know more about trans care than the professional you are going to see.

It can be a challenge when we find ourselves stuck in the negative cycle of behavior. Especially when that cycle is an attempt to avoid feelings of dysphoria. And sometimes it can be difficult to know where to begin and how to break it.

Watch as I share my professional view on ultimatums in a relationship and share my thoughts on how to deal with them.

Many of my YouTube viewers often wonder if Gender Dysphoria ever fully goes away once you transition. Especially given that many start gender transition with hopes of completely eliminating feelings of Gender Dysphoria. But does it ever fully goes away? And if not, what tends to contribute to it?

When you start to transition or when you have completed any parts of gender transition, you may start experiencing feelings of inferiority. These feelings may often manifest as: feeling as if you don’t belong, fear that someone might discover you are transgender, and feelings of “faking” who you are.

When you struggle with Gender Dysphoria, you will often utilize a number of defenses in order to help you cope with it. Some of the defenses are called adaptive in psychology. Meaning, they help you as an individual. Others, are called maladaptive. They aren’t helpful and in some ways are actually harming you.

Many of my YouTube viewers often ask me whether they should transition. Which is a much more complex question to answer and to be honest, is something only you can decide on. Nonetheless, many viewers seem to be wondering whether it is a right path for them and are terrified of making a mistake.

It is incredibly common to experience tremendous amount of self doubt when it comes to your trans identity. Especially if you are about 40 years old and older! In fact, there are important factors which have shown correlation between age and self doubt when it comes to gender identity.

Trying to wrap your head around gender identity can be incredibly confusing. That’s because gender identity is composed of multiple factors such as gender role, gender expression, and even sexuality. And there is a big difference between gender identity and gender dysphoria!

While it enables to connect people all over the world, it also plays a big part in spreading a lot of wrong information! Especially when others feel they know what’s best for you. Start giving advice. And begin coaching you into the next steps you need to take.

The number one question I get asked from partners is whether the relationship will survive transition. In this video, I explore two fundamental factors which have shown a success of a relationship.

Despite an ongoing gender revolution, our society recognizes two genders; male and female. Eventually, some people get tired of the struggle and end up making a drastic mistake! In this video, I discuss nonbinary identity and share with you one big mistake you want to avoid.

I have been hearing a lot of trans policing, especially on social media. This “policing” is in form of letting others know they are or aren’t Trans Enough! What exactly is “trans enough?” Is it real? Imaginative?

Make no mistake, working with a specialist makes a huge difference on your transition. Not to mention saves you money and time. Here are key reasons why and how to find one in your area.

If you are getting ready for FFS you must have your own expectations. Often thinking FFS will give your just exactly what you are looking fore. But what is realistic when it comes to FFS?

If you are thinking or considering phalloplasty, do think about your sexuality and sexual orientation. Here is why.

Ever wonder what your HRT numbers should be? Got yourself into comparison game with someone else on HRT? Here is why you want to avoid it.

Many people ask me this question constantly. Often fearing potential regret and seeking a bulletproof certainty. But is there such a thing?

Many transgender people wonder if transition is a linear process. Most importantly, would they be seen as being any less transgender identified if they didn't go through all the stages.