When it comes to dating and relationships, many ponder questions of self disclosure. In this video, I share pros and cons of disclosure early on vs disclosure later on in hopes of helping you reach your own conclusion.

In my work experienced, I have witnessed how crossdressing in the beginning of gender exploration can actually have a negative affect. Watch as I discuss in detail.

Many of you expressed confusion between crossdressing and transgender identity. Especially if there is a presence of sexual arousal during crossdressing. Leading to uncertainty whether you may or may not identify as transgender.

Many people express not feeling dysphoria toward their genitals. Leading to a confusion and uncertainty about their gender identity. Truth is, many people do not experience genital dysphoria.

It is common to experience fear when it comes to exploring who you are. Many of you are afraid you might find out you identify as transgender. And in fact, not exploring is one of the worst things you can do for yourself.

When exploring your gender identity, it can be confusing to know which steps to take. Especially when it comes to affirming steps and how to spot them. Affirming steps, or small tasks on the way to your bigger goal, are vital to knowing you are on the right track.

People who are not comfortable with their gender assigned at birth, end up under the wide meaning of the word “trans.” As a result, many often assume that if you identify as transgender, you have to transition. The truth is, not everyone who identifies as trans needs or wants to transition.

It can be exciting to be a part of LGBTQ group especially as you become aware of your true sense of self. While groups are important for many reasons, they also carry potential dangers. One of which is peer pressure to conform. In this video, I discuss such pressures and ways you can cope with it.

Many people reach out to me asking what it means if they do not have an early childhood experience of body incongruence? Does it mean you are not transgender? Is having childhood experience necessary in order to identify as transgender?

De-transition stories are real! Valid! And important for all of us to hear! There is much to learn from this stories and to understand about gender transition and gender at large. Lately, there have been more people sharing their stories of de-transition. Watch as I discuss in this video what can we learn from this individual narratives.

When it comes to advocating for your needs, it can challenging when it comes to medical providers. This is primality because it is a challenge to find a skilled and knowledgeable provider to begin with. And often as a consumer, you know more about trans care than the professional you are going to see.

It can be a challenge when we find ourselves stuck in the negative cycle of behavior. Especially when that cycle is an attempt to avoid feelings of dysphoria. And sometimes it can be difficult to know where to begin and how to break it.

Watch as I share my professional view on ultimatums in a relationship and share my thoughts on how to deal with them.

Many of my YouTube viewers often wonder if Gender Dysphoria ever fully goes away once you transition. Especially given that many start gender transition with hopes of completely eliminating feelings of Gender Dysphoria. But does it ever fully goes away? And if not, what tends to contribute to it?

When you start to transition or when you have completed any parts of gender transition, you may start experiencing feelings of inferiority. These feelings may often manifest as: feeling as if you don’t belong, fear that someone might discover you are transgender, and feelings of “faking” who you are.

When you struggle with Gender Dysphoria, you will often utilize a number of defenses in order to help you cope with it. Some of the defenses are called adaptive in psychology. Meaning, they help you as an individual. Others, are called maladaptive. They aren’t helpful and in some ways are actually harming you.

Many of my YouTube viewers often ask me whether they should transition. Which is a much more complex question to answer and to be honest, is something only you can decide on. Nonetheless, many viewers seem to be wondering whether it is a right path for them and are terrified of making a mistake.

Self doubting your gender identity is very common, especially the older you are. As you continue to self doubt over the years, without being aware, you are actually accumulating a compounding negative investment of emotions. In this video, I discuss and share ways you can break out of the cycle of self doubt.