It is challenging to branch out outside of your comfort zone. Oftentimes it may feel terrifying to cross over to the new frontiers.

“Why trans folks appear to display narcissistic behaviors when they start transition?” is a common question I get asked a lot.

Let’s face it, confidence is an on-going work in progress. And when gender identity issues or transition related challenges surface, it can shatter some aspects of your confidence.

Dysphoria is painful and often intolerable to live with for many trans folks. Numerous factors affect the severity and pain of dysphoria in your life.

Deciding on having gender affirming surgery is a personal and sometimes, challenging decision. Especially when it comes to big surgeries such as genital surgery.

It is natural to engage in pornography to explore both your sexuality and your gender. In fact, many would often imagine themselves in their authentic gender while engaging in self exploration of their body and sexuality.

There is a big demographic difference between older and younger adults and gender transition. One of the differences are challenges that older adults face when it comes to deciding to go through gender transition.

When you start to go through gender exploration or gender transition, you start looking around to see how others have approached it. And before you know it, you find yourself in comparison game!

Gender dysphoria strikes and affects everyone differently. For some people, their dysphoria feels mild. For others, it is more severe.

Getting ready for gender affirming surgery is a big deal! A lot of feelings arise as you get yourself ready for the big day.

Let’s face it, we are all born into privileges whether we want to acknowledge it or not. Skin color, gender, looks, height, finances, intelligence and on and on.

Physical and social dysphoria while often tend to coexist together, are not the same thing. In fact, it is common to have social dysphoria without feeling the physical.

Not everyone has an option of going through transition. What are the options open to you if you fall into one or more of these circumstances?

We often speak about transphobia in others and how others behavior is transphobic. But is it possible for trans folks themselves to express transphobic attitudes and believes?

Why do you experience a strong impulse, a strong sense of desire to experience and be in your gender on some days and not on others? But what exactly does cause this fluctuations to happen?

Yes! There is such a thing as transition burnout. And when it happens to you, you can suddenly find yourself feeling very overwhelmed.

We often discuss how others questioning your sense of identity may lead to doubts, insecurities, and confusion about who you are. But what about the way the world is organized and set up?

Many of you have shared your fears in a comment section of YouTube channel. Afraid to come out. Afraid to move forward with your transition. Afraid to book your surgery.

You often hear me speak about visionary board and there is a good reason for it. It offers aspirations, hope, dreaming, and momentum to move forward with your goals.

Are you tried of fearing losing people in your life once you transition? Afraid you won’t find a loving partner once you are done?