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What it Means Not to Have an Early Childhood Memory or Narrative of Trans Experience?
Many people reach out to me asking what it means if they do not have an early childhood experience of body incongruence? Does it mean you are not transgender? Is having childhood experience necessary in order to identify as transgender?
De-Transition Stories! What Can We Learn From Them?
De-transition stories are real! Valid! And important for all of us to hear! There is much to learn from this stories and to understand about gender transition and gender at large. Lately, there have been more people sharing their stories of de-transition. Watch as I discuss in this video what can we learn from this individual narratives.
Learn How To Advocate for Your Needs with a Gender Provider!
When it comes to advocating for your needs, it can challenging when it comes to medical providers. This is primality because it is a challenge to find a skilled and knowledgeable provider to begin with. And often as a consumer, you know more about trans care than the professional you are going to see.
Stuck in a Negative Cycle of Dysphoria? Here is How to Break It!
It can be a challenge when we find ourselves stuck in the negative cycle of behavior. Especially when that cycle is an attempt to avoid feelings of dysphoria. And sometimes it can be difficult to know where to begin and how to break it.
Help! My Partner Doesn't Want Me to Transition!
Watch as I share my professional view on ultimatums in a relationship and share my thoughts on how to deal with them.
Does Gender Dysphoria Ever Goes Away?
Many of my YouTube viewers often wonder if Gender Dysphoria ever fully goes away once you transition. Especially given that many start gender transition with hopes of completely eliminating feelings of Gender Dysphoria. But does it ever fully goes away? And if not, what tends to contribute to it?
Feel Like Imposter as a Transgender Person? Here is How to Deal With It!
When you start to transition or when you have completed any parts of gender transition, you may start experiencing feelings of inferiority. These feelings may often manifest as: feeling as if you don’t belong, fear that someone might discover you are transgender, and feelings of “faking” who you are.
What are the Dangers of Overcompensating with Your Biological Sex?
When you struggle with Gender Dysphoria, you will often utilize a number of defenses in order to help you cope with it. Some of the defenses are called adaptive in psychology. Meaning, they help you as an individual. Others, are called maladaptive. They aren’t helpful and in some ways are actually harming you.
Age 40 & up! Here are Tips on How To Break Cycle of Self Doubt!
Self doubting your gender identity is very common, especially the older you are. As you continue to self doubt over the years, without being aware, you are actually accumulating a compounding negative investment of emotions. In this video, I discuss and share ways you can break out of the cycle of self doubt.
Ages 18-28! Tips on How To Break Out of Self Doubt Cycle!
Self doubt in relation to your gender identity is incredibly common and often can lead to more confusion. That’s because there are multi layers that make up your sense of who you. Sorting out through layers can be a challenge and often may lead you to jump into medical transition, which can be a mistake. In this video, I discuss tips on how to break out of cycle of self doubt.
Ages 40 & up! Here is a #1 Reason Why You Feel Doubt About Your Trans Identity.
It is incredibly common to experience tremendous amount of self doubt when it comes to your trans identity. Especially if you are about 40 years old and older! In fact, there are important factors which have shown correlation between age and self doubt when it comes to gender identity.
18-28 Year Olds! Here is Why You Experience Self Doubt About Your Gender!
Trying to wrap your head around gender identity can be incredibly confusing. That’s because gender identity is composed of multiple factors such as gender role, gender expression, and even sexuality. And there is a big difference between gender identity and gender dysphoria!
Potential Dangers of Social Media
While it enables to connect people all over the world, it also plays a big part in spreading a lot of wrong information! Especially when others feel they know what’s best for you. Start giving advice. And begin coaching you into the next steps you need to take.
2 Factors Which Can Determine If Relationship Survives Transition.
The number one question I get asked from partners is whether the relationship will survive transition. In this video, I explore two fundamental factors which have shown a success of a relationship.
Nonbinary! You Want to Avoid Making This Mistake!
Despite an ongoing gender revolution, our society recognizes two genders; male and female. Eventually, some people get tired of the struggle and end up making a drastic mistake! In this video, I discuss nonbinary identity and share with you one big mistake you want to avoid.
Trans Enough? Is There Such a Thing?
I have been hearing a lot of trans policing, especially on social media. This “policing” is in form of letting others know they are or aren’t Trans Enough! What exactly is “trans enough?” Is it real? Imaginative?
Here are KEY Reasons Why You Need a Gender Therapist & How to Find One!
Make no mistake, working with a specialist makes a huge difference on your transition. Not to mention saves you money and time. Here are key reasons why and how to find one in your area.
Trans Women! Here is What Facial Feminization Can't Do!
If you are getting ready for FFS you must have your own expectations. Often thinking FFS will give your just exactly what you are looking fore. But what is realistic when it comes to FFS?